Nollywood Actor Olu Jacobs,who is married to Joke Silva in a recent interview revealed their secret for a great long lasting marriage.
"It is God. There are other forces outside that you need to take cognisance of. When you do, you have to make sure that they don't take control over your life. You are now thinking for two.
No decision you take should be for yourself alone. It is for two and it must remain for two. You have to always remember that. If my wife goes out and she finds out that she would not be able to make it back at the time she initially thought she would, she picks up the phone and calls me to tell me.
Fine! You are thinking for two, she knows where I am, I know where she is. We still do this till tomorrow. Communicating like that helps a lot.
Once we are talking, you have an idea of where I am and I have an idea of where you are. I am not saying that it should be calls every minute.
Sometimes, just being together in a room [and] not necessarily saying anything is also important,"he said.
Good for them.Many celebrities would be dieing to have a long lasting marriage like this.
"It is God. There are other forces outside that you need to take cognisance of. When you do, you have to make sure that they don't take control over your life. You are now thinking for two.
No decision you take should be for yourself alone. It is for two and it must remain for two. You have to always remember that. If my wife goes out and she finds out that she would not be able to make it back at the time she initially thought she would, she picks up the phone and calls me to tell me.
Fine! You are thinking for two, she knows where I am, I know where she is. We still do this till tomorrow. Communicating like that helps a lot.
Once we are talking, you have an idea of where I am and I have an idea of where you are. I am not saying that it should be calls every minute.
Sometimes, just being together in a room [and] not necessarily saying anything is also important,"he said.
Good for them.Many celebrities would be dieing to have a long lasting marriage like this.
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